What a dramatic Masters finish tells us about succeeding
"If you have a quote, it goes here." "Being in the lead and winning is not the same thing." ---Rory McIlroy
No, really, I had no intention of writing about the Masters golf tournament -- again. But, this 75th anniversary "tune-a-mint" that ended a few weeks ago offered more lessons than a kindergarten classroom.
True grit? Never say die? It’s never too late? All those, and more, applied to the crushing legion wrangling for the green jacket on Sunday. Eight players shared the lead over a few hours on Sunday. As in life, the contrasts were remarkable.
Rory McIlroy, who held the lead over 63 holes of the tournament, entered Sunday with a four stroke lead and watched it quickly evaporate as his game imploded -- he shot 80 on the final day -- as contenders climbed over him from every side. Eight players as far behind as seven strokes at down tied for the lead at some point on that bucolic Sunday afternoon.
Some rose to great acclaim -- Charl Schwartzel didn’t take the lead until the 16th hole on Sunday. He won with a birdie on each of last four holes -- never been done before by a Masters winner -- and on his first ever visit to Augusta.
What happened? What does it take to persevere under pressure … in the face of intense and relentless competition … when it’s so much easier to fold your tent and call it a day? What exactly is in the DNA of perseverance, anyway?
Talent. Of course, you've got to have talent, you'll say, that's a given. True grit isn’t worth much unless you have the capability to succeed, so it's important to have a clear understanding of your talent and that you apply it where it gives you a competitive advantage. If you're a fabulous chess player who's a duffer on the golf course, no amount of perseverance will overcome the futility of joining the PGA tour.
Patience. Our talents, no matter how rich, are fleeting ... sometimes rising to the surface when we're booming big drives, other times hidden beneath the surface when we can't make a putt to save our lives. Time is the father of patience and its greatest adversary is our desperation to get something done quickly. Maybe we waited too long, underestimated what was required or made too many mistakes. True grit will lead to success if we have the patience to allow our talents to ultimately prevail.
Purpose is essential to direct our energies and supplement the fuel stores supplied by confidence. Without Purpose, we would persist but not prevail, drudging along with no meaningful intent.
Confidence. That's the next ingredient in this gritty stew, a belief in yourself and your talent. We’re all pretty good at second-guessing our failures: “What could I have done differently?” “Why did I do something so stupid?” “When am I going to learn?” But, that kind of retrospective is like spitting in the soup. Confidence in yourself is the oxygen that fuels true grit.
Pluck is the ability to remain fearless in the face of adversity. You reject the pain, ignore the fear and fight back the tears on the way to victory.